With a hard-earned doctorate in the challenges of life, Terrick offers his experience and insights to all the other "slow learners". He was totally "No Clue" in the area of intimate relationships and love. Like many, he "believed the unbelievable".With a sweet but pungent sense of humor, he speaks candidly about his outrageous blunders, misjudgments, and unrealistic demands. The same ones that people often make about personal partnerships and alliances. What makes his story and perspective especially unique are the confessed painful and totally valuable "detours" he himself made in life. An intense dependence on drugs and alcohol, and a subsequent recovery for over 38 years ago. One "failed" marriage and one "terminated" one. And a few more disastrous but critically useful "bumps" in the road to happy destiny. Along with Edsel's smart, kind and sensitive wife, Kamonkwan, they reflect a simple yet deeply profound level of honesty, trust, and communication that is the center of a fully dynamic and fulfilling relationship. He challenges many ideas and common beliefs with the simple hope of creating awareness and freedom within relationships. Most importantly, Terrick has served as his own laboratory for the application of the principles and concepts presented in this book. And, they work! This is NOT a book of concepts or philosophies. It is a book of vitally effective tools to truly celebrate life, and live in peace and harmony with others.