This Book is going to help you overcome the pain and the guilt of being told you are the reason why a person chose to hurt you, leave you, abuse you and or blame you for their choices. Don't fight back in hate, don't fight back in revenge. Women you have fought through so many rapes, molestation, being called names, living in unbearable situations, being single mothers, working long hours and taking care of him. It's time you take care of YOU! Everything is first but you, woman! You are dealing with him, putting his hobbies first, his job first, his ambitions first. Dealing with his pornography fetish, and his lack of considerations, feelings of being discarded and betrayed because he values his time with others over you. His inconsistent ability to be present physically yet, absent emotionally. After all he blames you, women for everything that has happened in his life. It is not your fault. When you met him he was no further in life either. Don't take his blame! He will say if I wasn't with you, I could have gotten further in life. But, when he wasn't with you he got no further. Women you are not to blame! He has one desire - to pay you back because of what he believes. He will start with cheating, moving out, and doing anything that he feels creates for you what he believes you created for him. Women Beware! Enter not into his prison with him! The purpose of his argument is to say as many hurtful things as possible. Women, take your stand by saying first to yourself "I Am Not to Blame!"