Growing up under the regime of a narcissistic parent is uniquely difficult. Once becoming an adult, the biggest problem is recognizing why it is different. Being born under this parenting style makes it seem normal rather than abusive. With ninja- like skills, the narcissist convinces the world that you are the problem. In this self-help book, Lisa shares how she finally navigated the lies, manipulations and twisted thinking that was trained into her as regular. If you grew up with a narcissistic parent, this book will help you. In it you can learn how to focus on self without being selfish, allow for the struggle to exist without breaking you and take back control of your life from those Demons who are currently running it. This book can help you discover who you truly are as you reclaim your superpower. Knowing how to identify the changes you need allows you the ability to realize them as you learn how to fit your individual needs. You are not wrong or broken and it is possible to finally heal. As you recognize the needs that were not filled by your caretakers, you can learn to find healthy ways to fill them. Confidence emerges as you learn to set healthy boundaries with self and others. Though everyone's journey is unique, the similarities you will read about in this book will become clear as you navigate out of that toxic relationship with your caretaker. You can learn to create your life your way, discovering your remarkable uniqueness along the way. Your brilliant survival skills that were learned under gaslighting, constant criticism, and maybe even physical abuse helped you survive. You may not have had safety growing up but you can design that safety in the life you choose to create now.